Wednesday, January 1, 2025
Broken Wrist
Christmas Traditions
Christmas traditions are important to me. That's probably one reason that I have a ridiculous number of Christmas decorations. Some of them my Grandma Boyle made before I was born, others I remember from my childhood, still more from the time when we had little kids plus so many from our trips. I collect nativity scenes and also try to get a tree ornament at each destination. I love them and find joy each year when I get them out.
Traditions of things that we 'do' are even more important. During my growing up years, all of my Daddy's family came to our house for Christmas Eve. First we went to our different churches for a Christmas Eve service and then all my aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents came to our house for eggnog and good food.A few years after I was married the electricity went out during the party. Unsure what to do with a crowd in a dark house, a new tradition of singing Christmas carols together was born! Funniest of all, we sang 'The Twelve Days of Christmas" with different people taking each verse. My Daddy's sister, Maudie, always sang, '3 French hens' and although she could not carry a tune, she was quick to laugh at herself and that just added to the fun. After Maudie passed away, we never sang again because it was just too painful. George and I did renew this tradition when we lived in Spain by inviting all our friends over for food and carol singing on Christmas Eve.
Our George Lewis family traditions have evolved over the years. When the kids were little, we acted out the nativity story and also read 'The Polar Express' and of course left out cookies and milk for Santa.
Our children all have sweet memories of first Grandpa Walt Lewis and now Grandpa George Lewis reciting the Harrison R Merril Poem
'Christmas Eve on the Desert"
They remember all the years as little children when they didn't understand the poem at all and just felt anxious for the evening to end so Santa could come. When they were teenagers, the beauty of the poem and the tender sentiments expressed became clear. Now it is a treasured reading every Christmas Eve.
On Christmas morning we open gifts one person at a time. I love this because then you get to see the reactions as special gifts are opened. When it is a free for all, you miss seeing the recipients delight.
Now that we have adult children and grandchildren, traditions have evolved and we seem to have hit upon the perfect mix for this stage of life.
This year I loved listening to 9 year old Isabella anticipate the Christmas traditions. Her excitement about the games and food made all the work that goes into making this holiday special well worth the time and effort!
Christmas Eve starts with ornament making. Every year since 2011, we have made ornaments. You can see them on our tree in this photo of Matt and Cady and their cute dogs, Millie and Baby Dog. The boys do occasionally grumble about 'crafts' but they are good sports and make one each year!
Sunday, December 29, 2024
Christmas In West Virginia
I gave Mary a sweatshirt for Christmas that said, "Life is better with my boys". I think she would agree that Christmas is better with her boys. Jackson, Mark and the new little foster baby! The baby's birth mother's parental rights were terminated a few weeks ago so it appears that he will become a permanent part of our family. I couldn't be happier! Hopefully before too long we can share his cute face on social media.
Poor little guy had RSV for Christmas. His fever finally broke and the meds helped so I think he did enjoy the excitement.
Friday, December 20, 2024
Giving Machines Come to Boise
In 2017, our church, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, introduced the 'Light the World Giving Machines'. They are essentially reverse vending machines. Instead of receiving a can of pop or a bag of chips, you can swipe your card to choose an item to donate and the item is distributed to a local or an international nonprofit organization. The Church covers all operating expenses, including credit card fees, so that the nonprofits receive 100% of the donations.
Sunday, December 1, 2024
Wicked
On Friday Isabella and I went to 'The Village', a very nice outdoor shopping mall, to see the movie version of 'Wicked'. I had totally not taken into account that it was 'Black Friday' and 'The Village' is very popular.
I am not exaggerating when I say that we spent 35 minutes, mostly stopped in traffic gridlock, looking for a spot. Just about the time the movie was going to start, Isabella said, "There is a spot". Unfortunately for me, it required parallel parking. And I hate parallel parking. In fact I avoid parallel parking at all costs BUT the movie was about to start so I attempted it. I admit that I was probably 3 feet from the curve and I spent the entire movie hoping my car wouldn't be towed or side swiped. And it wasn't! Isabella told me that her Daddy could park in the spot easily in one try and I don't doubt that. Without comparing myself to John or to George, I was pretty proud of myself.
And we loved the movie. Isabella gave it a 10 out of 10.
Thanksgiving
Our Thanksgiving was perfectly lovely! Truthfully I was thinking of taking the family to Chuck-A-Rama like we did a couple of years ago when only Monica, John and Isabella were joining us. The variety of foods was a big hit for everyone and the quality of the food was better than I remembered, Chuck-A-Rama was one of George's Dad's favorite places. He made sure to get his money's worth by piling his plate high and even stuffing rolls in his pockets.
My original plan changed when Matt told us that he was not going to Wyoming with Cady to her Grandmother's 90th birthday because he knew we would be in Peru next Thanksgiving and he wanted to spend this one with us. When I heard that I knew I had to fix a traditional meal with all the foods we love.
And that is what I did!
Wednesday, November 20, 2024
Grandma and Grandpa Are Going on A Mission
Ever since George stopped working, I have been talking about serving a senior mission as a couple. True to our personalities, I was immediately enthusiastic and George was much more thoughtful and concerned with details like finances and our house and our cars.....
I knew that Matt and Cady were planing on moving sometime next year and hoped to live with us while they had her house on the market. One day I casually asked Matt if they would consider living in our house for 18 months while we went on a mission. I was pleased when he said that was something they would consider. Several more weeks went by and George was still 'thinking'. He wasn't opposed to the idea, just not totally on-board like I was.
Then came a Sunday when several talks at church were about the blessings of serving a mission as a senior couple and the great need throughout the world. That very evening, Matt texted. "Mom, are you and Dad serious about going on a mission because Cady and I think it work for us to live in your house while you are gone."
Ah a sign from Heaven that now was the time for us to go! George recognized it and knowing they would take good care of our house, we got the process started.
Now came interviews, doctor and dentist appointments, and lots of questions, which ranged from 'what is your interest in learning a new language?' to 'can you drive a truck?' to 'what is your level of expertise with computers?'. The application process took 5 full weeks.
Senior couples can list eight 'preferences'. Our list included Nigeria, the Congo, the Philippines, Vietnam, Niue, and Guatamala. Finally our papers were complete and we had our last interview and our missionary application was officially submitted.
Just before submitting our papers, our Stake President (an ecclesiastical leader over 9 congregations in our area) asked us to consider going to Peru where another couple from our area are serving as Mission Leaders. They have no senior couples in their mission and are desperate for help. We enjoyed meeting them through a 'FaceTime' chat. As we ended our conversation, they said that they were going to officially 'request' that we serve in their mission. It wasn't a 'done deal' and still required confirmation from the spirit to the Apostle who was extending the call.
So we had no idea how all of this would turn out. Where would we be spending 18 months of our lives? Now the wait began! Three to six week waiting time was the norm. Patience doesn't come easily to me but I did survive the nail biting weeks before we learned where we would be going.
November 12th we both woke up to this notification: